It's mid-October, are you wondering how the time flies so fast?
Stop. Take control of your time and your energy. You have a finite amount of both.
Stop volunteering for things. Someone else will do it.
Stop saying yes to every event. Pull out your calendar right now and schedule a slot of time that stays blank. That time is for you.
Stop expecting perfection of yourself. Do just enough on the tasks that aren't your top priorities and save your best effort for the things that matter most to you.
Stop wasting time hemming and hawing. Make a decision, and live with it. You'll feel lighter.
Stop comparing yourself to others. Be the best you that you can be so you can enjoy today and all the love in your life.