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Teaching Kids to Pack for Family Travel

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We've traveled a lot this year, taking trips to Chicago, Orlando, and all 10 states on our 17-day road trip. One reason we chose to do so is because the kids are older (they're now 10, 10 and 13), which makes it so much easier. I used to pack for all five of us–making sure that everyone had what was needed for every second of every day. But no more! Now, I expect my tweens to pack for themselves, and I've trained them to do so. I am so much less stressed leading up to a family vacation–it's awesome! It's a new kind of freedom that has allowed me to enjoy our family travel so much more. Are you ready to teach your kids how to pack for family travel? Let me show you what is working for us.

Teaching Kids to Pack for Family Travel

One suitcase & backpack per person

For the longest time, I'd pack everyone in a couple of suitcases, since the little kids' clothes were little and I was doing all the packing anyway. Not anymore! To encourage independence, each child got their own suitcase (we picked up inexpensive ones in different colors–no black, so they're easy to find in baggage claim). Each kid also packs a backpack with their “entertainment” for the road trip or plane ride.

Packing list

To move the responsibility off of me and onto the kids, I made up a printable packing list. It's a Word document that can be easily edited to the number of days that we are traveling or for the season. It's divided into clothing, toiletries, and “for car,” which can be changed to “for plane” when needed. Before each trip, I go in and change the number of outfits each kid needs to pack, plus anything special like a swimsuit, etc.

Rolling clothes to fit more - Teaching Kids to Pack for Family Travel

Roll clothes to fit more

You know how hard it is to get kids to fold and put their laundry away (even on a good day). Rolling is so much easier, and it's the best way to pack a suitcase because you can fit more in and fill each nook & cranny. My kids learned quickly to roll their shirts and shorts to fill in the bottom of the suitcase, then fill in the gaps with their underwear, swimsuit, etc. Pants are easy to roll, but shirts are a little trickier. Just fold the shirt in half, fold the sleeve in, and then roll.Rolling shirts to fit more - Teaching Kids to Pack for Family Travel

We always bring two pairs of shoes–sneakers and slides–and they wear one on the plane and pack the other. Socks can be packed inside shoes to fill in the empty space. Each kid is responsible for their own toiletries, packed in a zipper bag. They use the packing list to be sure they remember everything.

Plan for dirty laundry

Each kid gets a plastic grocery bag to keep in their suitcase, and it's the designated spot for dirty laundry. On this last road trip, we packed light so I knew I'd need to use a laundromat. I took the all® free clear mighty pacs® and all® Free Clear dryer sheets because all of us have sensitive skin and are allergic to trees, grasses, and pollen. Visiting so many national parks and hiking outdoors, I wanted to be sure we could enjoy the trip, so we washed with all® free clear to help remove 99% of the top everyday and seasonal allergens. Twice during the 17-day trip, I had to do a few loads of laundry, and neither of the laundry rooms had safe laundry detergent for sale, so I was so glad I brought it along! Especially with the single-use all® free clear Mighty Pacs®, make sure you follow the directions for use on the packaging exactly.

Teaching Kids to Pack for Family Travel

Using these steps, my kids have practiced and succeeded at packing for themselves all year. I love being able to count on it now! Wherever your next trip takes you, encourage your kids to be independent and pack for themselves. It's an important skill that they'll need when they're older, and by doing it now, it frees up your time and stress to enjoy your family vacation even more.

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Friday 30th of September 2016

Wish I'd read this a decade ago. I now have teenage girls and they are terrible packers. Makes it hard to be mobile when we go to Europe haha.

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Wednesday 28th of September 2016

[…] the kids are older (10, 10 and 13), we are doing more traveling. It’s so much easier now that they can pack themselves, and we plan together as a family to budget and choose where to go. Another way we’ve made it […]


Thursday 22nd of September 2016

These tips are so great, Gina! Thanks for the printable - time to plan a vacation and encourage my son to pack his own suitcase! #client


Wednesday 21st of September 2016

These are all great tips for teaching kids how to pack. I will have to use these tips with my daughter who is 6. I think it is a great time to start teaching her how to pack her own bag.

Jenn Gerlach

Wednesday 21st of September 2016

Getting kids to help makes packing so much easier. We used all free clear military version for YEARS when hubby was in the army.